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Butler

Butler / House Assistant job (M/F) in San Francisco, USA

San Francisco

Job Description

A private client in the San Francisco Bay Area is seeking an experienced and exceptionally polished Butler / House Assistant to provide discreet, highly personalised support across both the household and the principal’s day-to-day affairs.

This is a sophisticated hybrid position combining the responsibilities of a traditional private butler with elements of personal assistance and household coordination.

The successful candidate will have a strong understanding of luxury hospitality and private service, ideally developed within a prestigious European five-star hotel, luxury residence, private estate, or similarly high-standard environment.

The client is looking for someone who naturally anticipates requirements, pays exceptional attention to detail, and delivers service with discretion and professionalism. You will be expected to move comfortably between personal administration, travel arrangements, wardrobe management, formal service, household organisation, and day-to-day assistance.

A calm personality, excellent judgement, impeccable presentation, and a genuine service mindset are essential.

Responsibilities

Personal Assistance & Lifestyle Support

  • Manage a dynamic calendar covering personal appointments, professional commitments, meetings, family schedules, and other engagements.
  • Coordinate domestic and international travel from start to finish, including flights, private aviation where applicable, hotels, ground transportation, itineraries, and travel documentation.
  • Organise detailed travel schedules and ensure all arrangements are confirmed and communicated efficiently.
  • Serve as a discreet point of contact for household vendors, contractors, service providers, and other external contacts.
  • Coordinate appointments and household services on behalf of the principal.
  • Handle personal errands, purchases, gift sourcing, deliveries, and other ad hoc requests.
  • Assist with private events, special occasions, and personal projects as required.
  • Maintain a high level of confidentiality when dealing with personal, professional, and household information.

Butler & Household Service

  • Deliver polished and attentive butler service to the principal and guests.
  • Provide professional food and beverage service during meals, entertaining, and private occasions.
  • Set and maintain tables according to appropriate formal and informal dining standards.
  • Support entertaining and ensure guests receive discreet, attentive, and personalised service.
  • Prepare simple, healthy breakfasts, snacks, light meals, coffee, tea, and other refreshments when the private chef is unavailable or when requested.
  • Anticipate the principal’s needs and ensure daily routines run smoothly and efficiently.

Wardrobe & Valet Services

  • Take responsibility for the care and organisation of fine clothing, luxury garments, shoes, and accessories.
  • Coordinate dry cleaning, specialist cleaning, alterations, repairs, and other garment services.
  • Maintain wardrobe organisation and assist with seasonal clothing rotations.
  • Prepare clothing and accessories for travel, appointments, events, and special occasions.
  • Pack and unpack luggage to an exceptionally high standard, ensuring clothing is organised, presented, and ready for immediate use.
  • Provide discreet personal valet services when required.

Household Organisation

  • Help maintain the residence to an immaculate and highly organised standard.
  • Monitor household supplies, personal provisions, and inventory levels.
  • Ensure essential items are replenished before they are required.
  • Coordinate specialist care for delicate fabrics, fine linens, luxury textiles, and other household items.
  • Liaise with external housekeeping, maintenance, laundry, and other service providers as necessary.
  • Support the smooth running of the residence without compromising the client’s privacy or personal space.

Job Requirements

The ideal candidate will be an accomplished Butler, Private Butler, House Assistant, Personal Assistant, or luxury hospitality professional with experience working for discerning clients or within a high-end service environment.

A background with a prestigious European five-star hotel, luxury resort, private estate, UHNW household, or comparable setting would be highly desirable.

You should demonstrate:

  • Exceptional standards of personal presentation and professional conduct.
  • A naturally discreet and service-oriented personality.
  • Excellent verbal and written communication skills.
  • The ability to anticipate needs and act proactively without constant supervision.
  • Strong organisational and multitasking abilities.
  • Confidence working in formal and high-profile environments.
  • A sophisticated understanding of hospitality, dining etiquette, and guest service.
  • Strong attention to detail, particularly when handling clothing, luggage, travel arrangements, and personal belongings.
  • Excellent technological skills, including calendars, travel platforms, messaging applications, and digital administrative systems.
  • The maturity and judgement required when handling confidential personal and household matters.
  • Flexibility and a willingness to adapt to changing priorities and schedules.

A bachelor’s degree or higher would be advantageous but is not essential where equivalent professional experience can be demonstrated.

Additional Requirements

  • Valid driver’s license with a clean driving record.
  • Reliable ability to travel locally as required for household and personal errands.
  • Current authorization to work in the United States.
  • Successful completion of comprehensive background and reference checks.
  • Flexibility to work longer days when required by the needs of the household.

Working Conditions

  • Location: San Francisco, Bay Area
  • Position: Butler / House Assistant
  • Schedule: Full-Time | Flexible schedule, including longer days when required
  • Benefits: PTO, Health Insurance, 401(k)
  • Start Date: Flexible

Salary

Up to $150,000 per year, depending on experience

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Isabelle Moreau
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Fort de plus de deux décennies d'engagement et de dévouement dans le monde de l'hôtellerie, j'ai perfectionné mes compétences au sein d'établissements de luxe tels que Relais & Châteaux, le groupe De Vere et Leading Hotels of the World, garantissant constamment l'excellence et stimulant la croissance de l'entreprise. En tant que manager expérimenté, j'ai supervisé des équipes de plus de 40 personnes, recruté des managers et des collaborateurs dans tous les services, amélioré les normes opérationnelles et établi des relations essentielles à la réussite.

Au sein du MMI, je mets désormais ma passion et mon expertise au service des candidats ambitieux vers les postes de leurs rêves dans le secteur de l'hôtellerie.

Mon parcours est marqué par un engagement envers l'excellence et une passion pour façonner l'avenir du secteur.

This job offer is managed by MMI's agency New York- USA
Address : 2040 Forest Ave, Staten Island, New York, NY - United States

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